 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People |
| Marital Status: |
Single |
| Children: |
Undecided |
| Education: |
College Graduate |
| Religion: |
Spiritual, but not Religious |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
professional |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Height: |
5' 8" |
| Ethnicity: |
White / Caucasian |
| Languages: |
English |
Sexy Stuff
| I Am Looking For: |
Virtual Relationship, Cyber Sex, Social Encounters, Real Life Relationship, Erotic Chat, Cyber Friendships |
| Sexual Fantasies: |
Fetishes, Swapping, Domination, Bondage, A Beach, Costumes, Toys, Multiple People, Sadism & Masochism, Massage Oil, A Public Place, Exhibition & Voyeurism |
| Sex is Best: |
Casual, Passionate, Loving, Experimental, Wild, Kinky |
| Cybersex: |
Yes |
| I Want You To: |
Talk Dirty to Me, Teach Me New Tricks, Tell Me Your Fantasy, make me smile... |
| Cybersex Personality: |
Experienced, Submissive, Passionate, Threesomes, The More The Merrier, Fun With Toys, Adventurous, Kinky, Exhibitionist, depends on the mood but i'm into most anything you can cum up with... |
My Web Gifts
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ivy_monette's Scoop
About me:
For a very long time I wasn't able to accept the fact that I liked girls. I've always been told (and have long tried to accept) that I am considered by some to be an attractive woman, and I have had natural emotional and sexual feelings for women since my teenage years. I at first diagnosed myself as "having a problem," and I prayed that I wasn't going to turn into one of those "dykish" masculine lesbian women. That was the stereotype that I grew up with. I didn't feel that I fit in with either the heterosexual or homosexual crowd because I knew that I didn't fit the stereotypes of either group. Since I came out, I have since continued to strive to embrace my lesbianism, but not without years of guilt and unhappiness.
So what does it mean to me when I refer to myself (affectionately) as a Lipstick Lesbian. That's how I gender identify even though when I have to pick orientation off of a form I'll usually check bisexual. Anyway... I think that the terms "Lipstick Lesbian" and "femme" can be used interchangeably. However, most properly, a "Lipstick Lesbian" is a feminine woman who loves other feminine women, and a "femme" is a feminine woman who loves masculine women. And before I get a bunch of irate e-mails, let me say that I'm using the words "masculine" and "feminine" in terms of their traditional meaning.
Some Lesbians seem to believe that femininity is an artificial creation invented and imposed on women by men to keep us down, and those who believe this think that every woman who wears makeup is endangering our civil rights. I could not possibly disagree more; I think that Nature made us the more aesthetic sex so that it would be obvious at a glance which was the superior sex, and it is a crime for us to try to obscure Nature's message. Some Lesbians believe that we are "trying to pass for straight". Well, when I was 13 and thought that I was going to Hell because I wanted to kiss a certain blonde in my ballet class, I didn't know that there was a "right" way to be a pre-vert. I didn't know that a desire to kiss girls was supposed to inspire me to play sports and fix cars and wear boys' clothes. I liked pretty clothes when I was a tot. I'm not trying to pass for anything; I'm being true to myself. Anyway, even when I don't tell people I'm gay -- which I often do -- I think most people figure it out from the way I rubberneck; I'm an incorrigible girl-watcher!
Who I'd like to meet:
more smart, confident women in leadership roles in our culture
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More About ivy_monette
My Other Profile/Website Links:
http://www.angelfire.com/jazz/ivymonette/
if you want to find me in the Spring, I'm at the Dinah... for info go to TheDinah.com and then come join me in the swimming pool!
Interests:
let's see...
if she's buying, a single malt scotch... what do I like... (1) Talisker Cadenhead Cask Strength Sept 95 bottling... it is oh, my god, good, (2) Laphroaig, (3) Glenmorangie, (4) Lagavulin... in other words, if you've got the scratch, well, I may be easy but I'm not cheap, if you know what I mean...
now, if I'm buying, it's probably going to be a Sam Adams... and I really like Oktoberfest, Boston Ale, Pale Ale, and Scotch Ale (I know shocking)...
... and being outdoors, hiking, reading, laying in bed when it's raining, cooking with someone who knows really knows what they're doing...
... and ok, I'm a fan of both SoN and The L Word... I get a kick out of the cute high school SpAshley (I wish I'd gone to that school), however Shane is not only living life balls to the wall but she is also omigod HOT!... so, follows are a few favorite quotes and then a video clip celebrating (?!) Shane
cashier: Okay. Any flavoring?
shane: What. In my coffee? What the fuck is he talking about the flavoring?
shane: "I don't have a plan. That's the point."
My Favorite Websites:
AfterEllen.com
Girl Bar ROCKS!
Music:
Trish Murphy, Diana Krall, Iron &; Wine, Dar Williams, The Waifs, Patty Larkin, Neko Case, Kathleen Edwards, Christene LeDoux, Garrison Starr, Kasey Chambers, Kate Campbell, Kelly Willis, Susan Tedeschi, Tift Merritt, Todd Snider, Jill Phillips, Indigo Girls, Emma's Revolution
Movies:
ya know, i'm mostly into indy and foreign, though i do know all the words to The Little Mermaid... best movie ever!
Books:
As Erasmus said, "When I have a little money, I buy books. If there is any left, I buy food and clothes."
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